It appears here with the kind permission of the publisher, F. It is a slightly edited version of the chapter written jointly by Jim Simkin and myself for the third edition of Current Psychotherapies. The version was a complete rewriting of a version Jim did by himself for the second edition of Current Psychotherapies. The revisions I made in the version were minor and were made after Jim's death.
Trouble concentrating Indecisiveness Instead of getting up each day and planning what you are going to do with your spouse, you now wake up to an empty space on the bed next to you.
You no longer have that special someone waiting for you when you get home. You no longer have a friend and partner that you know you can count on for anything. This can leave you feeling naked and vulnerable like you have never felt before. After all, you have just lost someone that you have come to love and depend on; in many ways it really is like a big part of yourself was taken away when your spouse passed away.
Life Goes On Moving on from emotional trauma is challenging. In fact, right after you have lost your spouse it can seem as if your whole world has come crashing down; now you have to find a way to pick up the pieces.
As difficult as it may seem now, it is possible to move on. Your life is going to change, and you will always miss your spouse, but you have other people in your life that love you and count on you.
Your friends, family, and even people in your life that you may not expect want you to make it through this and get onto the path to recovering from your grief.
They are there for you if you need them. Remember Your Children If you and your spouse were parents, then you should seek comfort in the arms of your children, for your sake as well as their sake.
For a child, losing a parent at any age is a life-changing event. It can impact your children just as much as it has impacted you. Because of this, your children need you when your spouse passes away. Some exacerbate the problem by turning to excessive drinking and smoking.
Exercise, eating right, and getting plenty of sleep will help you tremendously. Support Groups Simply talking about our problems can go a long way toward solving them.
A few ideas to start with — local places of worship, hospitals, and even online groups. Talk to a Professional Once again, talking through your grief is one very effective way of coping with it.
Speaking to a therapist or counselor can make all the difference. Faith If you are a religious person, you may find relief from your pain in your faith.
Your local religious community can be a pillar of strength in these trying times. The intensity of your grieving, and how long it lasts, will largely depend on you as a person and how close you were with your spouse. While you will certainly miss your spouse forever, there comes a point where you have to learn to move on.
When you reach that moment, one of the biggest challenges you are likely to face is the huge void that has suddenly been left in your life. One solution is establishing stronger relationships with the people left in your life.
This may seem like the last thing you want to do, but after taking this first step you are likely to find that spending more time with them is a source of comfort.
Your friends and those closest to you care about your well being, and they want to be there to help you move past this difficult stage in your life.
This will help you in the healing process, which is the only way that you can move on and keep living your life.An introduction to how issues about Africa are covered, the legacy of colonialism and some additional context for many of Africa’s woes.
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